Death by Love, by Mark Driscoll & Gerry Breshears
And this audio book of the same name!!!!
I personally prefer the audio book, especially in this case. I am, at this very moment, sound-checking this audio book before it goes to the duplicator. It is POWERFUL & AMAZING!! I think this could be a life-changer for many people. I am very excited about it. But know that it is blunt, real, honest, and in some cases, brutal. I like the approach because I think it's needed in our day. And I enjoy listening to Mark Driscoll's voice.